Thursday, August 27, 2009

In Loving Memory of Marcus Iken


Marcus was my husband. He was fit. He was smart. He was stylish. He was funny. He was many things. He was also a very good pie baker. And that's about all I can say right now because I can't see the computer screen through my tears. I loved him and will miss him so very much.

From the funeral program:

Marcus Iken was born in Bremen, Germany on July 2, 1966. He was raised in Lehnigen (just outside of Stuttgart) by his parents Marulf and Angelika. He got his first motorcycle at the age of 16, which gave him the freedom to meet girls! He got his master’s degree in engineering, and afterward spent several years in London, where he perfected speaking English with a beautiful British accent. Upon returning to Germany he got a job at the Fraunhofer Institute, which eventually led to a position at Daimler. His work took him from Stuttgart, to Portland, to Mexico, and then back to Germany. In 2001, he met Beth Howard at Crater Lake National Park. They married on August 22, 2003. Their life was a great adventure with motorcycle trips through Italy, scuba diving in Turkey, backpacking in the Alps, and road trips in the US. They equally enjoyed gourmet dinners and luxury hotels. Marcus developed a love for road and mountain biking, as well as yoga. He loved hot saunas and ice cold showers. He loved watching the History Channel, drinking cafĂ© lattes, grilling, and throwing the stick for his dog Jack. He was a very dedicated employee — they called him a rock star at work. He was a loyal husband. He lived his life to the fullest, diving into everything with discipline and enthusiasm. He died on August 19, 2009 of a ruptured aorta due to a congenital heart condition. He was 43. We will miss him very much.

5 comments:

Ken said...

Words seem inadequate to express the sadness I feel for you Beth. I hope the following Eskimo legend provides some comfort.

Perhaps, they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.

Thinking of you with love.
Sarah Pearlman

living.boondockingmexico said...

Hi Beth,

the door is always open here in Mexico if you want to come down for a spell.

cry a little, laugh a little, and remember all the good things. life is good and so is god.

bless you friend.

Bettina said...

Dear Beth,

I've shared very some years in the 1970is with Marcus.
Our families lived in the same house in Frankfurt and our parents were friends.
we only met each other 1 time as we were about 12 years old.
My parents will meet his parents tomorrow at the ceremony.

best regards
bettina howold

Barbara DeMarco-Barrett said...

Thinking of you, Beth, and sending thoughts and prayers your way.

Barbara

sreynolds said...

Beth, thanks for sharing about Marcus and your bond with him. Sharing about your loss and grieving helps you and we who have also lived, loved and lossed. I, too, am having trouble writing through tears. You're in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings, Steve Reynolds